Maggie here. James is taking a nap so I am taking advantage of having two hands free to type!
Anyone want to know what it's like to travel by yourself internationally with an infant? Well I'm here to tell you...it's actually not too bad. People see a woman with an adorable baby juggling a stroller, car seat, backpack, and nursing pillow (worth it) and they jump to help. James had at least 4 strangers holding him at various points of the journey. Most were on the plane so I figure they can't take him anywhere. This was James's first time on an airplane, and we figured go big or go home, right?
Lance left for NZ on July 28th after spending a week in Michigan visiting his parents and grandmothers and going to his friends' Dustin and KP's wedding. James and I took our sweet time meeting him overseas so we could visit relatives in Pennsylvania and Ohio. We were able to visit both sets of my grandparents in the Pocono Mountains and Harrisburg. Before we left for New Zealand James was held by all of his great-grandparents! What a blessing!
James with all of his grandparents!
Grandma Weber and Nanny
PopPop and Nana
Mamama and FarFar
On September 8th my mom and dad drove us to the airport for the big day. James and I both had head colds we caught from Ian, who had just returned to school the week before. Darn those back-to-school colds! I was armed with the bulb snotsucker and baby Tylonol and not looking forward to the following 20.5 hours. I had prepared myself for being extremely emotional saying good-bye to my parents, but I ended up keeping it together pretty well. United gave my mom a gate pass to help me through security, so I said good-bye to my dad at security and my mom at the gate. When it came time to say good-bye to my mom, I was so focused on getting all of my belongings plus James on the plane that I completely forgot to cry!
Our journey took us from Dayton, Oh to San Fran, CA to Auckland. We were very lucky that Lance's company, PwC, purchased seats for both James and me. That means I didn't have to sit with James on my lap for 21 hours. Sweet! He was in his car seat for all of the domestic flights. He was asleep before we even took off! I had to force him to stay conscious enough to suck on his pacifier the whole way up to help pop his ears.



Our San Fran to Auckland flight was with Air New Zealand, and boy, were they wonderful! Everyone was incredibly friendly. Shout out to our flight attendant, Kerri, who was especially kind. Families with young children were able to board first so I had plenty of time to get settled. Kerri and I chatted while everyone else was boarding, and we talked of 'coffee groups' (women that went through their intranatal classes together and then move on to play groups once their babies are born) and Auckland neighborhoods. She gave me her number and email and told me to give her a ring if I had any questions. Amazing!
I made the decision not to bring James's car seat on the plane with us because the international flights have baby bassinets that attach to the bulkhead. You have to request these seats when you purchase a ticket. It was FANTASTIC. I was able to have an empty seat next to me for all the junk that goes along with flying with a baby, and then James was able to lay down and sleep through the whole flight. He didn't quite sleep the entire way, but he got some decent chunks in. Babies have to be on your lap during take-off and landing. They gave me a special belt for him that connected to mine. He was able to wear it while breastfeeding (again, to help with his ears). When he switches to the bassinet there is a cover that snaps over the top to keep him from flying out in case of turbulence. If you are going to fly overseas, this is the way to do it.



A couple of months before we made this journey, a friend of Lance's from elementary and high school contacted us to say that she was also moving to Auckland. We exchanged emails and coordinated it to be on the same flight. Her name is Ashley and she was moving to Auckland to be with her boyfriend, Todd, who was also on the flight. Ashley was able to come sit in the empty seat for a bit to chat and get 'clucky' over James. Being 'clucky' is a kiwi phrase for when you go all googly-eyed over a baby.
Fourteen hours, five spit-ups, four strangers, three poops, three outfits, and one partridge in a pear tree later, we landed in Auckland. It is a very long walk from the arrival gate to the arrival area. We have to go through customs, get our luggage, go through customs again where they scan our luggage, and then we can leave. Trying to steer a stroller and enormous luggage cart through long lines is a bit tricky. Ashley and Todd tried to help where they could, but they had their own luggage to worry about. Plus Todd had a sprained ankle with a leg brace. Phew. Finally I walked through the sliding doors and saw Lance. I was home!
Super Mom!